Marriage is not a flashy car…
That is a wedding. It looks flashy but is made of weak material. Once bashed it is beyond repairs.
Now, marriage is like a Coaster Transport Vehicle . You can bash it so many times but when it goes for panel beating it can come back as new.
We have too many people “wedding” these days but not getting “married” that is why the divorce rate is becoming alarming.
GOD and not LOVE must be the foundation of your marriage. Love is an unstable emotion and lies on the other very thin side of hate.
The first department to create when you get married is the “Maintenance department” if not you will skip straightway to “Replace”
The only one who will never disappoint you is God. Don’t set your expectations too high. It is not fair on that human being.
REMEMBER – If God did not give up on a murderer like Paul, don’t give up too soon on a spouse you think is bad. God is still in the marriage saving business!